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“In some ways we judge the story by the storyteller.” Colonialism corrupted the beautiful message of the Gospel when it forced Christianity on Indigenous people.

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5 Sure Signs of Middle Age
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Returning to My Series on Gratitude
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Last week, I read a series of seven articles in the NYT that considered chronic pain from a variety of different angles. As someone who

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