RECENT POSTS

How Disability Challenges Our Ideas About God • Amy Kenny, PhD • S11 E2
REIMAGINING THE GOOD LIFE PODCAST What if disability isn’t a problem to solve, but a way of revealing what it means to be human? Disabled

How Bureaucracy Costs People Time and Dignity
For two decades now, we have navigated paperwork and bureaucratic systems with our daughter who has Down syndrome. When she turned 18, there were new

What My Daughter Wants You to Know About Down Syndrome
We are approaching the end of Down syndrome awareness month. It always sneaks up on me. It’s both an arbitrary designation and also something that

Books About Down Syndrome for Readers of All Ages
Want to learn more about what it’s like to live with Down syndrome? I have book recommendations for you (in addition, of course, to my

The Time Tax: Do We Have to Prove We Deserve Help? • Annie Lowrey • S11 E1
REIMAGINING THE GOOD LIFE PODCAST What does government bureaucracy have to say about who matters in our society? Why does it take so long and

What I’m Reading, Watching, and Listening To: October 2026
Books, essays, podcast episodes, and more that I think are worth your time, plus recent cultural news that I’m paying attention to in the month

Communication Skills for a Stronger Marriage While Parenting a Child with a Disability
“So, someday do you think you might take out the trash?” I remember my husband pointing out that I was a passive-aggressive communicator when I

College Transition Programs for Young Adults with Disabilities Should Be the Model, Not the Exception
I want to start today by saying thank you for your concern and support when I mentioned last week that Penny might have one year

What Does It Mean to Live a Good Life? Introducing Season 11 of Reimagining the Good Life
REIMAGINING THE GOOD LIFE PODCAST Season 11 of Reimagining the Good Life begins October 28! This season, we’ll explore what it means to flourish through

Communication Skills Every Marriage Needs: Disability + Parenting • Katie Gohde, LPC, and Steve Gohde
TAKE THE NEXT STEP PODCAST E34—Do your conversations end in silence, defensiveness, or words you wish you could take back? Are unhealthy patterns undermining your

Does This Church Welcome Families With Disabilities? 4 Things to Look For
When our family was looking for a church, we saw a statement on a church’s website about a commitment to families with disabilities and seeing

How to Face an Uncertain Future with Hope When Parenting a Child with a Disability
I received an email yesterday that left a pit in my stomach. I won’t go into all the details here yet, because I’m still hoping

How to Find a Church That Welcomes Disability • Nakoa Dantzler Merritt
TAKE THE NEXT STEP PODCAST E33 — Will your child with a disability truly belong at church—or simply be accommodated? How can you recognize genuine

How Chronic Stress Affects Marriage: 5 Ways to Stay Connected Through Caregiving
What happens when a hard season doesn’t last twelve weeks or even twelve months, but twelve years? I think about friends who have middle schoolers

I Don’t Want to Take Away Down Syndrome
Okay, so tell me what comes to mind when you read the words, “Children with Down syndrome may no longer be born.” Here’s what those

Is Your Marriage Just Surviving? Disability, Chronic Stress, and Caregiving • Monica DiCristina, LPC
TAKE THE NEXT STEP PODCAST E32 — Are you exhausted from caregiving? Anxious? Burned out? Do you find yourself resenting your spouse or keeping score

5 Ways to Help Kids With Disabilities Through Grief
I’ve talked with many parents of children and adults with intellectual disabilities who’ve experienced significant loss, and one of the things they’ve told me is

White Picket Fences Turns 8
White Picket Fences turns 8 today! So here’s a little back story I’m not sure I’ve told here before. I started working on a book
