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We All Need Healing
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New York Times: I’m Thankful Every Day for the Decision I Made After My Prenatal Tests
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When Penny was three months old, and we were so very new to all things parenting and all things related to disability, we attended a
Anticipating Joy
“Anxiety is anticipated terror. Hope is anticipated joy.” I heard theologian Jürgen Moltmann say this to fellow theologian Miroslav Volf on a podcast a long
Receive Healing: Surrender
As we pay attention to pain and ask for help, we are already taking the third step toward healing. The third step is to, in
Receive Healing: Ask for Help
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