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Deficit-Based Language
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Eleven years ago, we moved to a new town and Peter started a new job. I called it my “year of wine and nachos,” as
What Will Perfect Humanity Look Like?
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March Introductions
Hello and welcome! I wanted to introduce myself once more: I write a lot. I have been writing posts of some sort for the internet
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On World Down Syndrome Day, Jillian Benfield, author of The Gift of the Unexpected, talks with me about whether it is hard to be
World Down Syndrome Day 2023
I love World Down Syndrome Day. It’s a day to simply pause and celebrate the goodness of a world with people with Down syndrome in
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So a few weeks ago, Peter texted our family chat and asked everyone to share a screenshot of their screen usage numbers for the previous
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