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When our daughter Penny was born, I was a student at Princeton Seminary. I stumbled through the basic Greek of the New Testament and enjoyed

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How The Pitt Gets Disability Right: Realistic Representation in TV Healthcare
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The Pizza Order: A Story of Disability and Belonging at Church, at School, and Beyond
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When Special Education Works with Adrian Wood
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January 2026 • Things Worth Your Time
Books, essays, podcast episodes, and more that I think are worth your time, plus recent cultural news that I’m paying attention to in the month

You Know You Belong When… How Churches Can Create Real Community for Families with Disabilities
Belonging is a bit of a buzzword, but I’m inclined to keep it in the lexicon because it speaks to such a core human need. We

Culture Care, not Culture War with Makoto Fujimura
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Every year, Penny and I visit the Down Syndrome Clinic at Mass General Hospital. (Here’s a behind-the-scenes look(!) at one of our recent visits to the

Reviewing the Year
In 2020, Peter happened upon a guide that we’ve found helpful in reviewing the year. (We’ve lost the source for this, I’m sorry to say!

Mamma Mia on Broadway
Penny and her friend Rachel have had a regular Saturday night “watch party” since they were both stuck at home during Covid. There’s a good

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This New Year took me by surprise. I climbed in bed with a head cold the night of December 31 (long before midnight). I hadn’t

How the Civil Rights Generation Can Lead Us Out of the Culture War with Justin Giboney
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Using Your Breath to Interrupt Anxiety
When anxiety creeps in, our breath often carries the story we’re telling ourselves. In my conversation with Justin Whitmel Earley, he points out that we
