Cinderella syndrome. I coined this phrase in conversation with my counselor a few years ago. I suffer from Cinderella syndrome every time I feel like I can’t do what I really want to do unless I get all the menial chores done. And, beyond that, I know that the only way they will get done is if a fairy godmother and some enterprising mice show up to help.

Whenever I feel this way, it’s a signal that I need to pause and reflect. Usually, I’m overwhelmed by tasks. And usually, I’m resentful of various members of my family for not helping with said tasks. And usually, I can either ask for help, let things go, or simply wait to accomplish those tasks.

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